Whatever the problem may be, I consider The Problem the problem—and not the people. At times it can make sense to see the entire family, in an attempt to form a "team" together against the effects of The Problem.
After all, it's usually true that nobody likes The Problem. Nobody likes being labeled as the source of the problem either.
With my training as a family therapist, I guide and coach families in ways to beat The Problem and turn their home into the kind of place they want it to be.